How to Ace Dealing With Belligerent Family Members At Holiday Gatherings
You have one in your family, too, don’t you? First thing, they say something provocative to start an argument, debate or fight. It feels like everything they say is designed to make you squirm. And anything you say can and will be used against you. And it feels like crap.
All you want to do is enjoy a festive time with your family. But try as you might, you end up in an argument about politics, religion, or your life.
Family Members Can Be The Toughest Critics Of All
Often, your life choices come under fire. They might question the job you’ve taken. Or they might comment on the way you’re wearing your hair or raising your kids. It might be your beliefs about the merits of fried tofu or the current season of The Walking Dead. Whatever the reason, instead of enjoying yourself, you feel wrung out, sad, or angry.
So, how do you handle it? What do you do about that person who comes at you like a 2 by 4? How do you gracefully sidestep the argument and maintain your sense of calm and joy in the holiday season?
Listen to this week’s podcast episode. Get the four simple tips that will have you communicating in fun ways with even the toughest family member.
Next week, we tackle how to sail through company holiday parties. You’ll learn how to meet new people, manage conversations, and shine through those awkward moments and events.
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